On Saturday morning I decided to pretend I am athletic and go for a run. I’m still not really sure why but I dragged my lazy-bones self out of bed, dug some sports shorts from the bottom of my drawer, and hit the road.

I always run the same route (reality check: the three times I’ve gone running, I ran the same way) because it’s a good distance for a novice and there’s only one large hill.

Right before the hill is a parking lot. Oh, how I sometimes wish I lived in an apartment off that parking lot because then I could be home from my run rather than approaching said hill.

Unfortunately I don’t. But the girls in the car about to pull out of that parking lot do. Ok, I’ve never met them but I’m pretty sure that’s the only reason they’d be leaving there on a Saturday morning.

We made it to the parking lot-road intersection at the same time so they let me go first. I really appreciated it. I didn’t want to break my (super slow) pace just before the hill. (I would call it the hill of death for emphasis but I’m pretty sure someone who reads this blog knows what I’m talking about and would call me on my melodrama).

This isn't actually where I was running. This is much prettier.

This isn’t actually where I was running. This is much prettier.

As I crossed out of their way, the girls rolled down their windows and began to cheer.

Over the music in my ears I heard, “You can do it! You got this!”

I regret that my back was to them because it meant they couldn’t see the huge smile take up residence on my face. Part of the year of joy means letting the smile take over even when it’s silly or unprofessional.

As I approached the hill, I cocked my head back and maybe even acknowledged my cheerleaders with a wave.

The only thing about my physical body that had changed was the smile. With the smile came the emotional change that I could do this. With their encouragement, I could say to the mountain ahead of me, “MOVE!” and it did.

Don’t worry, I was still exhausted by the time I made it to the top. But I made it. And I made it the rest of the route and home again.

All with a smile.

Not because I like to run. No, really, I loathe it.

But because some strangers decided to cheer for the skinny kid who was running more slowly than most people walk.

I was the recipient of a random act of kindness.

This is joy.

Let’s pass it on.

When’s the last time you found–or gave–encouragement in an unlikely place?

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  • http://sometimeshope.wordpress.com/ Chris

    My wife and I were checking out at Wal-Mart. I asked the cashier how she was doing. She replied, “I’m here. The only thing that could brighten my day would be if I had a piece of gum. My mouth gets dry from having to talk to you people.”

    Ignoring the negativity in her demeanor, my wife smiled and pulled out a pack of gum. “Here, have a piece,” she said brightly. The cashier smiled and took a piece, then cocked her head sideways, as if to say, “What’s the catch?” I replied, “Hope your day improves!”

    “I think it just did!”

    • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

      Yes! That’s exactly it. I had a change similar to that at the grocery store a few weeks ago. The cashier was on the phone when I walked up which I thought was rude since she was at work on a personal call. She went on to tell me her brother was hospitalized with cancer… everything changed in that minute.

      • http://sometimeshope.wordpress.com/ Chris

        I am still learning to slow down and really pay attention to what’s happening in other people’s lives. For me, that’s the biggest barrier to be the encourager I know God has called me to be — I am just too selfish with my time and focus. Thanks for posting this. Oh, and by the way, it’s nice to have a conversation that is longer than 140 characters…

  • Nicole {nicolepaullin.com}

    Telling my kids I love them. Those smiles are perfect. Knowing I brought them joy gives me joy. It’s the little things you do that can make the biggest difference.

    • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

      Love this, Nicole!

  • John Morgan

    I was walking last Sunday at a local ecological preserve, on the boardwalk out over the swamp. I heard somebody running up from behind me. I turned to see a little 3-4 yo girl who had broken free from her mother’s grasp and was heading to me. I stopped. She looked up at me, said hello, and put her arms around m legs to try to climb up. Needless to say, the mom was speechless. Never having kids myself, it did give me a warm feeling.

    • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

      How precious!